Christ himself wanted a fitting a decorous environment for the Last Supper, asking his disciples to prepare it in the house of a friend who had a large upper room furnished. In face of Judas' protest that the anointing with precious oil was an unacceptable "waste," given the need of the poor, Jesus, without diminishing the obligation of concrete charity towards the needy, declared his great appreciation for the woman's action, because her anointing anticipated that honor of which his body will continue to be worthy also after his death, indissolubly linked as it is to the mystery of his Person.
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Well, the Church must be a Church of Love, but it should not forget that the members of the Church are all affected by original sin.

The best way of spreading sin is denying original sin.